I remember the first time I was exploring inserting a dildo and feeling like a complete newbie. I was so worried I was going to do something wrong and it would be really embarrassing. I had no idea where to even start, and I had no clue about the different types of dildos out there. But I was determined to figure it out and make it work for me.
The first thing I had to do was figure out what kind of dildo would be best for my body and my level of experience. After some thorough research, I settled on an incredibly flexible silicone dildo that was also easy to clean. I also made sure that it had a flared base since I would be inserting it anally. I felt much more comfortable knowing that I had chosen the right product.
Once I had my dildo, I had to warm it up. I got out my water-based lube and began to add some to the dildo as well as to myself. This made the experience of inserting it much smoother and comfortable. I then took some deep breaths and let the lube settle into my skin before getting into position.
I then began inserting the dildo ever so slowly, inch by inch. As I inserted the dildo more and more, I added more lube to make it even easier and comfortable. I continued inserting it while taking long breaths until I felt the base of the dildo completely enter my body.
Finally, I was done! I felt relieved that I was able to insert the dildo successfully and without any pain or discomfort. I then kept the dildo in place, took a few moments to enjoy it, and then slowly and gently pulled it out.
From then on, I got so much better at it. I gradually increased the length of the dildo, as well as trying out different textures and materials. I even tried double penetration (with two dildos, one inserted vaginally and the other anally). With practice and the right technique, I was able to successfully use the dildo in all kinds of ways!
I also began to explore the different techniques I could use with a dildo, like thrusting and swirling it around. I even tried out different positions to make it easier, like laying on my back with a pillow under me. As I experimented with different things, I found that I was able to enjoy the sensations of being penetrated to their fullest.
Another thing that I found helpful was to incorporate different toys in my dildo sessions, like vibrators or strap-ons. I was able to increase the intensity of the stimulation and expand my pleasure, which was always a thrilling experience!
I also started to explore the different types of movement and thrusting I could do with the dildo. I tried a range of different speeds, intensities, and depths of penetration. I discovered that I felt the most pleasure when I moved the dildo slowly and gently, so I began to focus on this technique.
I also experimented with different shapes and sizes of dildos. I found it really exciting when I moved up from a smaller to a larger dildo. I was able to explore different sensations and even experience the feelings of fullness I couldn’t reach with a smaller dildo.
The more I experimented with my dildo, the more I was able to understand my body and how it responds to different kinds of stimulation. It made me confident and proud of my body and all the pleasure I could explore. I’m so thankful for all the knowledge and confidence I gained from using dildos and am excited to keep exploring!