I know I’m a bit late to the party, but I’m finally ready to try anal and I’m not sure how to use a dildo for the first time. As terrifying as it may seem, it’s not something to be scared of and the first time doesn’t have to be overwhelming or intimidating. All you need is the right tools, information and attitude.
First thing’s first: get yourself a dildo. I chose a silicone one because it’s body safe, non-porous, and won’t irritate or harm me in any way. Plus, it’s designed specifically to fit in the anus so it won’t take up too much space and won’t cause any damage.
Now that you have the right toy, it’s time to prepare for a smooth experience. Start by relaxing your muscles and take some deep breaths. During the whole process remember to relax and not to rush into it.
Now that you’re prepared, it’s time to begin. Start by lubricating your dildo then take time to really lather it up. This will ensure a smooth entry and will make the experience less intimidating and more enjoyable. Once you’re done, start by gently inserting the dildo into your anus. I found that it helped to take small steps and to go slow. Even though it may be really uncomfortable or downright scary, remember that it will get better soon.
Take your time and let your body adjust to the sensation and the new sensation of the toy inside your anus. Once you start to feel more comfortable, begin to increase the speed and pressure as you see fit. You can even experiment with different shapes and angles to make sure you’re getting the most out of the experience.
Once you feel like it’s the right time, try to orgasm with the dildo. It might take a few attempts before you get it right, but that’s okay. Even if it takes longer than you thought it would, don’t get discouraged and just keep at it.
Last but not least, make sure that you respect your body and take it slow. Take the time to explore what feels good and what doesn’t and remember that it’s all about having a good time.
Now that you know the basics, let’s take it to the next level. You can bring different types of lube into the mix, try different positions, and even buy a dildo specifically designed for anal use. You can also try adding vibration to the mix, sex dolls and experiment with double penetration. There’s so many options!
Another way to take your anal experience to the next level is butt plugs. Butt plugs are a great way to experiment with different sizes and sensations and can be used in combination with your dildo. They can also be inserted solo, and you can try different positions and speeds until you find what feels best.
Vibrations can take your pleasure to the next level as well. Vibrators designed for anal use can give you more stimulating sensations than a regular dildo, and can also be used for different kinds of pleasure. Go slow with the vibrations and work your way up to more intense sensations.
If you want to dive even deeper into the world of anal pleasure, you can try toys made of stainless steel, glass, or even solid gold. These types of toys are often bigger than your average dildo, so make sure to use plenty of lube and take your time. Most of these toys also have a wide base which makes them easier to handle and more comfortable to wear during sex dolls.
To top it all off, anal beads are a great way to build up to a climax. You can buy anal beads with different sizes, materials, and shapes to really tailor your experience. Start by inserting one bead at a time until you reach your desired level of pleasure. Experiment with different speeds and positions and move on to insert two at a time.
These are just some of the amazing things you can do to explore the world of anal pleasure with a dildo. It may feel daunting or scary at first, but don’t forget that it’s all about having a good time. And who knows? Maybe you’ll even discover a newfound love for anal pleasure!