It hurts to pull a dildo out, vibrators and personally, I was very surprised when I first experienced it. The pain radiates from the area around the vagina or rectum and I felt a burning sensation shooting through my body. It’s not the same kind of pain that you expect when you feel something sharp or pointed, but more of a burning, sharp, tingling sensation that rings through your body. It’s not exactly pleasant but at the same time not unbearable, it just kind of catches you off guard.
I’ve been told by my friends that it’s actually just a reaction from the suction created by the dildo and that the more lube you use, the less intense the sensation might be. This makes sense to me, because after lubing up the dildo before using it, the pain lessened quite a bit when I pulled it out. I think it’s also important to take it slow and steady when pulling the dildo out, I definitely didn’t make that mistake again after my first experience.
At first, the pain felt extremely uncomfortable but I soon realised that pulling the dildo out slowly makes the feeling more bearable. I prefer to use a toy that has a bit of texture around the base to help with the suction and grip the dildo better. I’ve also found that if you get a dildo with a curved shape and one that fits your body perfectly, you’ll feel much less discomfort when extracting it.
Coupled with lube, this strategy seems to work wonders for me and now I actually look forward to taking the dildo out instead of dreading it. Even though you won’t be able to avoid the feeling completely, I think there’s definitely ways to make it more comfortable.
One of the most important things to remember is to take your time when removing the dildo. Pulling it out too quickly can cause pain and uneven tugging which can make the sensation worse. It’s also wise to pull the toy out in a gentle rocking motion so that the suction isn’t so jarring. I also like to draw warm circles around the base of the dildo before I take it out, which can help with the pain and also adds a bit of extra pleasure which is always nice.
I’ve also tried using vibrators for extra sensations, but I usually don’t find that they’re necessary. Plus, it’s hard to focus on the vibration when I’m already in pain or uncomfortable. While vibrators can be fun, I’d rather just stick to the basics when it comes to dildo removal.
Now that I’m more familiar with the sensation, I actually find myself looking forward to taking the dildo out cause I know I’ll be able to enjoy the gentle sensation. Taking things slow and steady along with a bit of lube makes all the difference for me. It’s all about finding the right combination that will work for your body.
I’ve also heard that using a toy with a flared base can make it easier to remove the dildo. This kind of toy has extra grip, which prevents it from getting stuck or lost up there. Plus, it’s usually easier to grasp onto the flared base when taking out the toy. It might be an extra step but it definitely makes removing the dildo much less of a hassle.
Another thing that seems to help is making sure that your body is relaxed and comfortable before extracting the toy. If you’re tense and anxious it can make the sensation more intense, so take a few deep breaths and try and let go of any tension beforehand.
In general, I think it’s important to use a good lube, go slow, and use a toy with a flared base. If the dildo fits your body just right, you should be able to pull it out without too much trouble. Of course, it might still hurt a bit, but by taking all the precautions you should be able to get it out without too much pain.